Andrew Ronald White

i love you

you dont know how much i miss you, iv tryied phoning your fone a million and one times but it still wont work,just wish you were still here. i miss you more and more every day,
i just need my daddy back
xx

Kate (Daughter)

March 31, 2009

Hi

Hi Big Andy am sorry i didn't know your memorial was on here,or i would have wrote sooner you was such a happy person who always had a big smile on your face.
please keep an eye out for my little guy Mckenzie who became an angel in Oct, lots of love Ian & Kelly xxxx

Kelly Morgan

March 12, 2009

hi big guy me and jess miss u loads she's so big now she's walkin an nearly talkin just wish u were here to see it all happening u ment loads to me an u helped me alot while u were here miss u so much love ash an jessica-may x x x x

Ashlea Jones (Close Friend)

March 12, 2009

andy, it has taken me this long to be able to put into words how I feel...I miss you so much, we need you back here big guy, need to hear your guitar playing, your wonderful laugh, your kindness and consideration.. Living next door to you and knowing you was a priviledge, not having you here is crap...you were always there for me you were a true friend I remember the hours we would sit and put the world to right over a drink or two, your children are a credit to you, I loved how you would sit and talk about how proud you were of them..God the world is a sorrier place without you...keep smiling I love and miss you

Carol Povey (Close Friend)

September 1, 2008

Memories

I don't really know what to say that hasn't already been said. I have fond memories of my uncle some of which my mum has already mentioned. I didn't see him as often as I would have liked and for that I will always be regretful.

I remember when I was 17 he came done and I was learning to drive my mini. He sat in the passengers seat and had such patienece with me as I over steered and hit the brakes too hard. He laughed his head off! We spent hours driving from one little roundabout to the other and back again.

When he used to drive the lorries for Lever Bros he occasionally came to Scotland where we lived at the time and Vicky and I used to giggle as he had to manuver the lorry down a cul-de-sac. Even today I love the smell of washing powder-partly because it reminds me of him!

My Uncle did not have the best memory in the world and it was a fmaily joke that he would send you a birthday card but when you would get it would be another thing. I will be very sad not to get a card this year but will think of him anyway.

The accident was horribly tragic but if one good thing came out of it is that it has drawn my Cousin Kate closer to Vicky and I-we have shared emails. Again we should have done this before now but hinesight is a wondeful thing.

To my Uncle I would like to say 'bye for now', thank you for the memories and will be thinking of you always x x x Bethyboots xx

Beth Gunn (Niece)

August 7, 2008

My baby brother

Well my darling where do I start, I've got a great big gaping whole in my heart that I hope will heal in time. I felt more like a mum to you than a sister for so many of your younger years, I fed you bathed you and wiped away your tears and saved you from many a telling off, but I couldn't save you this last time. I remember every day, something to make me smile, like the time when you were about five and I was giving you a bath before mum and dad got in from work. It was a saturday and we used to watch the partridge family together, you had come in particularly dirty having fallen in the pond on the Marfords estate whilst trying to catch sticklebacks, I came in the bathroom to check you were clean and give you a good scrub with the flannel, you looked at me with your big sad eyes and said 'Don't look Sue it's rude' How things changed many years later I was given the job of waxing your back.

When I had Beth and Vicky you were so proud you used to take them to the pub in their double buggy, they would come back covered in coke and ice-cream and the buggy filled with bits of crisps. As they got a bit older and by then you were in the Army, they looked forward to seeing you when you came home on leave, they remember you sleeping off the night before, they used to giggle and watch you snoring on the sofa. As the years went on you helped teach them to drive when you came to Bournemouth, showed Vicky how to get drunk in Liverpool, with your mates, and embarrassed the hell out of Beth's boyfriend by asking him what his intentions were at Ben's 60th birthday bash. Ben misses his !big little brother! and I miss your protective support, and your loving ways I know your last year was full of lows with a few highs, but your love for your children carried you through.

Andy I miss you I always will, and was proud to be your sister.

Sue x

Susan Gunn (Sister)

August 5, 2008

Big Fella

Where do you start, a friend who I loved so very much. My friend, everyones friend. We were eleven when we met at school, god did he used to tease me and wind me up. We shared jokes, heartache and fags for so many years. We took woodwork together and I used to flirt with him so he did all my practical work, when we got our results I got an A and Andy got a C, the look on his face, priceless. We asked him to be best man at our wedding, but he had another wedding on the same day so declined, cheeky bugger. He did do us the honour of being godfather to our first son and as only Andy could, bought the most expensive present he could find. He promised to take his godson for his first pint and when I reminded him some time ago he said he promised he would, silly bugger didnt realise he was eighteen months late. But that was Andy and you loved him all the more for his care free ways. If you only knew Andy the devastation you have left behind, you got the last laugh though didnt you, how many times did you ask me to come and clean your house, well I did sort out your house mate and the best bit is I did it with your Susan, we laughed and we cried at the irony, bet you were laughing your socks off. I know you will already have loads of new mates up there big fella, but pull up a chair for me when i arrive ill bring the fags you get the kettle on. Never thought loosing somebody could hurt this much, til we meet again big fella, goodnight, sleep tight, love always, Lynda xxxxxxxx

Lynda Jones (Friend)

August 4, 2008

R.I.P

R.I.P
Sadly missed. wish you were still here working along side me. Hopefully one day we will meet up in heaven and talk about the good times.

Peter Cooper (Friend)

July 1, 2008

Thank you

We had our good times (and there were lots of them), and our bad times, but he was always there when I needed him. I still can't believe that he isn't around anymore - if he knew how much I miss him, he'd be laughing his socks off!

I'd like to pay tribute to Kate and Tom, who have behaved with more dignity through all of this than people twice their age. Andy I am sure is watching over them both and will be rightly proud of them both. We have 2 special children, though we always knew we had.

Thank you also to everyone who has supported us and our families since 6th March. Andy was truly blessed with his friends, and so are those he left behind.

Andy was larger than life, and he touched more lives in his 44 and a bit years than most. He left behind 2 beautiful children, and lots of memories. If you have any memories of Andy, I am sure the children would love to share them. Clean ones, obviously!

Sarah.

Sarah White (Mum of Kate and Tom)

June 25, 2008

always missed

you could never ask for a better friend or family member, all the days an night we shared drinkin beer an havin fun they will never be forgottton as they stay in all our hearts, missing you always an forever until we stand together agen all love love
xxx

Philip Shortt (family)

June 16, 2008